This weekend was for the dogs. They had fun; I didn't. I intended to work on my novel and have it finished by Monday. Saturday morning, my wife and I decided to kick-start the day with a fun run for our dogs, then we'd busy ourselves tackling our goals. She'd clean the house, and I'd write. We decided to take our dogs to Dog Park. Dog Park is like heaven on earth for dogs. Canines come from everywhere to run, swim, and smell each other's butts. My wife leashed our three dogs while Mom climbed in the car. Everything was fine until my mother tried to sit down. Her attempt to seat herself failed, and she fell out of the car, landing on her back. I jumped out of the driver's seat and ran to the other side. There she lay, stretched out on the driveway, staring at the clear blue sky. With my wife's help, we lifted Mom to her feet. She couldn't walk because her knee hurt, but otherwise felt fine. After we arrived at the park, I helped her hobble to a bench. She had to sit down and watch the dogs from a distance.
Later, her knee still hurt, so we drove to an urgent care facility. The doctor thought her knee was sprained or fractured. She showed me the X-ray and said she wasn't sure about the fracture part. We'd have to wait a few days for the radiologist to make that determination. Meanwhile, someone had to stay with Mom twenty-four hours a day to assist her. My wife and I could manage the weekend, but what about during the work week? I looked to my kids for their assistance and they jumped at the opportunity. Offering them money also helped. Somehow, my wife and I got through the weekend, tired, yet showing few scars. Watching your mother sounds easy, but it's not. It's a draining experience. Mothers who taught their children how to take their first steps, aren't very good at listening to their adult children tell them how to walk. Our talking was bold, imaginative and incessant: "You're not supposed to walk without your walker;" "the doctor said to stay off your knees;" "you need to eat more food;" "why didn't you ask for help?" When we'd catch Mom walking on her own, she'd smile at us. That's her way of letting us know who's boss. Needless to say, it's Monday morning and my wife and I are whipped. I'll let you know how this progresses. As for my plans to finish my novel? Catching up on sleep sounds better.
Until later.
Monday, June 25, 2007
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Hi Doctor Rick: Found you through Sewmouse. I had to laugh at you paying your kids to look after your Mom. I find money to be a very good motivator when it comes to kids of any age.
It's surreal to discover that our parents will become more dependent on us. I looked at my Mom yesterday, while we were walking, and I wondered when it was that she got so small.
She still likes to give me "suggestions" even tho' I'm 58 years old. She only recently got after me for not eating my crusts and I said "For crying out loud Mom. I think I'm old enough to know whether I want to eat my crusts.!" Sheesh!
I see you're fairly new at blogging as I am compared to some who have been doing this for a couple of years. My young sister got me interested and now it has become my whole social network which is a little sad. I call them my invisible friends.
By the way I see you live in Ohio which is where my Dad was born (Mansfield) but moved to Canada at a young age.
Hey babzy: Wait till you see my next installment. There's a new twist to the story.
Interesting site
hope she's feeling better!
My mother had a heart attack a couple of weeks ago but she is doing well and should recover fully. How is your mom?
I joined a meet-up group for my two maltese pups (Henri & Leonardo) and we meet at a local dog park with other "mini mutts." Just yesterday evening I spent a good part of the night bathing them and first thing this morning they found something nasty to roll around in.
This is an anonymous posting I found on a poetry site that I workshop on. Hope you won't mind but I find is so typical of a dog's world.
DOG HAIKU
I love my human:
Thus I perfume myself with
This long-dead squirrel.
Today I sniffed
Many dog butts -- I celebrate
By kissing your face.
I sound the alarm!
Mailman fiend -- come to kill us all --
Bark! Bark! Bark! Bark!
I sound the alarm!
Neighbor's cat -- come to kill us all --
Bark! Bark! Bark! Bark!
I lift my leg and
Whiz on each bush. Hello, Spot --
Sniff this and weep.
My human is home!
I am so ecstatic I have
Made a puddle.
Sleeping here, my chin
On your foot -- no greater bliss --
Maybe catching cats.
I sound the alarm!
Dinner guests -- come to kill us all --
Bark! Bark! Bark! Bark!
The cat is not all
Bad -- she fills the litter box
With Tootsie Rolls.
I am your best friend,
Now, always, and especially
When you are eating.
My owners' mood is
Romantic -- I lie near their
Feet. I fart a big one.
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